{"id":5991,"date":"2025-11-29T05:56:49","date_gmt":"2025-11-29T05:56:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/storieshub.xyz\/?p=5991"},"modified":"2025-11-29T05:56:49","modified_gmt":"2025-11-29T05:56:49","slug":"i-promise-to-love-you-as-my-own-i-promise-i-will-be-the-best-wife-for-your-dad-tearful-bride-surprises-stepson-with-sweet-vows","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/storieshub.xyz\/?p=5991","title":{"rendered":"\u2018I promise to love you as my own. I promise I will be the best wife for your dad.\u2019: Tearful bride surprises stepson with sweet vows"},"content":{"rendered":"

Growing up in a blended family, Vanessa Lynch of Minnesota understands that sometimes, we get to choose our family.<\/p>\n

Vanessa met her now-husband, Craig Lynch, when they were both in college. They fell in love, and Vanessa slowly got to know Craig\u2019s young son Henry. By the time they finally walked down the aisle after a few years of COVID-19 delays, they had become a beautiful family of three.<\/p>\n

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As she prepared her wedding vows, Vanessa knew she wanted to find a way to acknowledge 9-year-old Henry. After all, she wasn\u2019t just gaining a husband; she was also gaining a stepson. While she worried that she would embarrass the child during the ceremony, when the big day came on December 11, 2021, she decided to go for it.<\/p>\n

\u201cI wanted [Craig] to know how much my relationship with Henry meant to me,\u201d she explained, \u201cto know that I wasn\u2019t just going to be a woman his dad was married to.\u201d<\/p>\n

When Vanessa finished reciting her vows to Craig, she pointed to Henry and asked him to step forward. An emotional video shows the moment she tearfully tells the boy, \u201cHenry, I know I wasn\u2019t there the day you came into the world. I wasn\u2019t there for your first steps or your first words, but I promise I will be there for many more of your firsts.\u201d<\/p>\n

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Henry, Craig, and Vanessa all fought back tears as she continued: \u201cI promise to love you as if you were my own, and lastly I promise I will be the best wife for your dad, and I promise to be the best stepmom I can be for you.\u201d<\/p>\n

When she finished, Henry rushed into her arms for the sweetest hug.<\/p>\n

\u201cI\u2019m not typically an outwardly emotional person but when I started saying the vows to Henry, I got choked up because I could see how much it meant to Henry to hear those things,\u201d Vanessa said. \u201cHe totally wasn\u2019t expecting it.\u201d<\/p>\n

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When the touching video went viral, Vanessa added that it was her own upbringing that showed her what a huge part of a child\u2019s life a stepparent can be.<\/p>\n

\u201cI come from a blended family, so me deciding to say vows to Henry really stemmed from my experience as a child \u2014 how stepparents should treat stepchildren as though they were their own children,\u201d she said. \u201cJust because you don\u2019t share blood with someone, does not mean you cannot be a family. It all comes from love you hold for a person and what you commit to one another.\u201d<\/p>\n

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Henry is a lucky kid to have such a kind and understanding stepmother! We hope this blended family has a lifetime of joy and \u201cfirsts\u201d ahead of them.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Growing up in a blended family, Vanessa Lynch of Minnesota understands that sometimes, we get to choose our family. Vanessa met her now-husband, Craig Lynch,<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5996,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5991","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-story"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/storieshub.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5991","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/storieshub.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/storieshub.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/storieshub.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/storieshub.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5991"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/storieshub.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5991\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5997,"href":"https:\/\/storieshub.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5991\/revisions\/5997"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/storieshub.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/5996"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/storieshub.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5991"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/storieshub.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5991"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/storieshub.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5991"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}