Is the place where we live in just a physical space with walls and a roof? Not according to Jewish Kabbalah, a part of Jewish tradition that deals with the essence of God. This Jewish mysticism believes that our home is a sacred, personal sanctuary where our mind finally gets to rest and our spirit gets the chance to recharge. Also, our home is sort of an emotional sponge that has this ability to soak up the energy of those residing in it as well as those who visit it, both often or just occasionally. This sanctuary of ours is constantly influenced by the thoughts, words, and actions that transpire there. This is why the energies that cross our threshold are more important than most of us want to admit, Jewish Kabbalah believes. These energies thus have the ability to change the harmony of our home and family and turn it into an either peaceful or a stressful place to be.<\/p>\n
When we decide to protect our home, that doesn\u2019t make us closed off, just aware of what supports our well-being and choosing to create a peaceful atmosphere.
\nKabbalistic tradition talks about the idea that everything in life, from the words we say to our intentions and moods, has a very specific energy. This means that everyone who comes through your door brings an \u201cinvisible gift\u201d with them. This energy may be perfect and wonderful, creating a warm and inviting atmosphere in your home. It may also be an energy that is felt long after your visitor has gone, leaving you with a feeling of discomfort and unease. This, however, doesn\u2019t have to do with bad intentions because some people are indeed kind and wonderful and have the very best intentions, and yet their presence just doesn\u2019t \u201cvibe\u201d with that atmosphere you strive to create in the home.<\/p>\n
The energy of a home can easily be disturbed by \u201ctragedy talks.\u201d What does this mean? Well, there are these people who without even realizing it always talk about bad news such as illnesses, tragedies, or scandals. And while most of us want to stay informed about the people and the world around us, there is a real difference between a balanced chat and a constant flood of bad news. In Kabbalah, words are not just empty vessels; they have a real effect on our world. When we talk about topics related to tragedies, it triggers energy that feels \u201cheavy.\u201d<\/p>\n
Next, there are these people whose attitude is always negative because of some reason. These are the people who tend to complain about anything and everything that\u2019s going on in their life even when things aren\u2019t that bad. While this doesn\u2019t necessarily make them bad people, it\u2019s their overall attitude that can affect our own mood and energy, so maybe next time a person like this wants to pay you a visit, just find an excuse and have your coffee with them at a coffee place instead. Even if you don\u2019t want to, these \u201cglass half empty\u201d people can trigger stress at you. So, if you can, just don\u2019t allow that to happen.<\/p>\n
According to Kabbalah, there\u2019s this \u201cenergetic compatibility.\u201d This means that each and every one of us has unique emotional \u201cfrequency\u201d just as every house has its unique \u201chum.\u201d At times, their frequencies will be compatible, and things will feel like they are flowing easily. Other times, they won\u2019t be, and things won\u2019t feel quite right. It\u2019s not necessarily that one is \u201cgood\u201d and the other is \u201cbad\u201d; they\u2019re just not tuned to the same station. When someone\u2019s energy doesn\u2019t mesh with the \u201cfrequency\u201d of the house, there can be a strange tension. There may not be anything specific that\u2019s wrong, just a feeling that the \u201cair is thick\u201d or \u201cnot quite right\u201d for no particular reason.<\/p>\n
I\u2019m sure that is has happened to you to feel relieved the moment someone walks out of your home. It\u2019s not like you fought or argued with the person, or they said anything bad, it\u2019s just the mood shifts instantly when they are gone and you think to yourself, \u201cOh, thank goodness they\u2019re gone.\u201d Well, from a Kabbalistic perspective, this says a lot. It means the person, who doesn\u2019t need to be bad by any means, brought energy that doesn\u2019t align with the natural balance of your place. What\u2019s more, your gut has the ability to pick upon this energies before even the brain figures out something is\u2026 well, just different.<\/p>\n
Another person to be aware of is the \u201cheavy\u201d communicator. They may not talk about tragedy or anything bad, but their default communication style is one of sarcasm, cynicism, or perpetual questioning. They may belittle your enthusiasm, your feelings, or always manage to find the one thing wrong with an otherwise excellent idea. While everyone may write this off as \u201cbeing a realist\u201d or having a \u201csense of humor,\u201d it still affects the emotional climate of the room. If your home life is supposed to be a place to encourage and help you grow as a person, perpetual cynicism can eventually turn your home life into a place where you feel as though you need to be constantly guarded in your words, ultimately draining the energy you could be expending to help yourself. Communications& Media Studies<\/p>\n
The key to getting a handle on all these energies and influences of people who visit your home, however, isn\u2019t about building walls or being cold to people. But what you need to understand is that your home is your reset button, the place you go to after a long and tiring day, and it needs to be as pleasant as it could be. Sadly, when your place is bogged down by heavy or clashing vibes, it starts to affect your ability to really rest.<\/p>\n
So, when you feel annoyed for no particular reason when you enter your home, try to pay attention to how different people affect your space and remember that the tranquility of your home is something worth fighting for.<\/p>\n
And yes, you don\u2019t have to be a hermit or start any kind of drama to totally protect your home\u2019s energy. I guess the best way to handle this issue is to try to set boundaries. This might mean that you keep a certain visit a little on the shorter side or try to subtly change the direction of a conversation to something a little more positive when it starts to get a little too dark. You might share something good that happened to you or something you\u2019re thankful for, and this can help change the direction of a conversation to something a little more uplifting and less draining. You\u2019re kind of an \u201ceditor\u201d of the conversation in your space, and by trying to keep things solution-oriented and not problem-oriented, you can help keep the energy in your home from getting too heavy and draining.<\/p>\n
A really good habit to get into is to check in with yourself before and after the person comes over. Your body is actually a really good indicator of the kinds of energies that are around. So, if you\u2019re always exhausted or \u2018on edge\u2019 after a particular person comes over, maybe it\u2019s worth paying attention to. On the flip side, pay attention to the kinds of friends that make you feel inspired, peaceful, or even \u2018lighter\u2019 when they leave. By paying attention to these kinds of micro-observances, you can be much more intentional with the kinds of people you allow to be around you. It\u2019s not mean-spirited; it\u2019s actually about being intentional with the kinds of energies that are in your home.<\/p>\n
Never underestimate the power of your physical space either. In Kabbalah, keeping things in order is actually a direct reflection of keeping things in order within yourself. So a clean and organized house isn\u2019t just about impressing the in-laws; it\u2019s about building a \u201cvessel\u201d that can actually receive and retain peace. A messy and disorganized house actually has a messy and disorganized energy to match. So when you take care of your physical space by getting rid of the literal dust and clutter, you are in a way building a way for a peaceful energy to reside in. Taking care of your physical space really is a form of self-care that allows you to keep your cool even when things get sort of chaotic.<\/p>\n
Conclusion
\nYour house is one of the few places on the planet that you can call your own, where you get to set the tone and create your own brand of safety and quiet. Making it a sacred space doesn\u2019t take a lot of heavy lifting; it just takes a little bit of mindfulness about what you allow to enter the front door. If you think carefully about the kind of energy you allow into your life, you\u2019ll create a real foundation for joy and connection to grow naturally, rather than forcing it to try to take root in a place where it has no business being. That\u2019s when your house goes from being a bunch of wood and bricks to being a place that not only gives you a place to sleep, but brings you back to life.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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