{"id":10089,"date":"2026-01-05T14:50:10","date_gmt":"2026-01-05T14:50:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/storieshub.xyz\/?p=10089"},"modified":"2026-01-05T14:50:10","modified_gmt":"2026-01-05T14:50:10","slug":"it-feels-like-forever-ago-that-it-was-just-us-who-we-were-when-we-fell-in-love-and-when-that-love-was-the-only-love-we-knew-wife-shares-how-marriage-has-changed-with-time","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/storieshub.xyz\/?p=10089","title":{"rendered":"\u2018It feels like forever ago that it was just us\u2014who we were when we fell in love and when that love was the only love we knew.\u2019: Wife shares how marriage has changed with time"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cLast night, I got dinner with my husband and it was just us.<\/p>\n<p>We sat at a bar booth and ordered wine and split food.<\/p>\n<p>We lingered longer than we may have otherwise and we talked, about more than a day\u2019s worth of usual.<\/p>\n<p>And for a few minutes, it felt like before.<\/p>\n<p>It felt like before, when \u2018us\u2019 meant the two of us, and not the four of us.<\/p>\n<p>It felt like before, when they, the babies, were a pipedream, a someday thing, a \u2018maybe when we\u2019re ready\u2019 thought.<\/p>\n<p>It feels like forever ago that it was just us\u2014who we were when we fell in love and when that love was the only love we knew.<\/p>\n<p>What we did when the days were ours and only ours. Who I was when my body was mine and only mine.<\/p>\n<p>Because the truth is that \u2018us\u2019 is more now.<\/p>\n<p>And that\u2019s the magic of babies and families and of raising little people.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s more love.<\/p>\n<p>It expands and it grows in ways you can\u2019t really understand until it happens.<\/p>\n<p>But you know what\u2019s also true?<\/p>\n<p>That \u2018us\u2019 is what started all of this four years ago on a sunny Saturday afternoon.<\/p>\n<p>That \u2018us\u2019 was enough.<\/p>\n<p>That \u2018us\u2019 took this plunge (and oh, thank goodness we did).<\/p>\n<p>That \u2018us\u2019 gets lost in the shuffle of the new, louder and more chaotic, nonstop \u2018us\u2019 of all of us.<\/p>\n<p>That \u2018us\u2019 changes and ebbs and flows and moves and grows.<\/p>\n<p>And that\u2019s okay.<\/p>\n<p>And sometimes? It\u2019s nice to see just \u2018us\u2019 again\u2014even just for a few minutes.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-10090\" src=\"http:\/\/storieshub.xyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/cassie_shortsleeve_husband_love1-900x599-1-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/storieshub.xyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/cassie_shortsleeve_husband_love1-900x599-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/storieshub.xyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/cassie_shortsleeve_husband_love1-900x599-1-768x511.jpg 768w, https:\/\/storieshub.xyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/cassie_shortsleeve_husband_love1-900x599-1.jpg 900w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cLast night, I got dinner with my husband and it was just us. We sat at a bar booth and ordered wine and split food.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":10091,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10089","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-story"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/storieshub.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10089","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/storieshub.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/storieshub.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/storieshub.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/storieshub.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=10089"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/storieshub.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10089\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":10092,"href":"https:\/\/storieshub.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10089\/revisions\/10092"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/storieshub.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/10091"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/storieshub.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=10089"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/storieshub.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=10089"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/storieshub.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=10089"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}